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IMPORTANCE
FIRST IMPRESSION Whether
it's fair or not, a person's first judgment
of other is based on clothing. The rest including intellectual appreciation comes
only second. Clothing is the first clue absorbed by the eye before the brain judges
first impression. Clothing has become the most important judging factor of first
impression. Your
Image Is ShowingWhen
other people look at you, they make judgments about you based on what they see.
They may judge your ability and disposition by that first impression. Appearance
creates a picture of who you are. When other people lack personal information
about you, they may use your personal appearance to judge your character. By
changing any part of your appearance such as hairstyle, grooming, or clothing,
you can change the total image others have of you. Appearance can be a powerful
and useful tool in controlling the kind of
message you send to others. It's
unrealistic to suppose
that everyone has the patience to wait for you to open your mouth before making
a judgment. What clothing creates on first impression is surely as important as
a thousand words for dozens of later opportunities. What happens during that first
moment will most likely affect the rest of the impression. How many times have
you heard, "When I've first met him..." or, "The first time I've
seen you I thought...?" How often do you find yourself baffled, bewildered
or even hurt because the response you elicit from others is different from the
one you had hoped for? Blame this on first impression. When
you first enter a room, an office, a bus
or a business meeting, you only have one free moment, one great instant in which
you receive the complete and undivided attention of those around you. In that
instant, the people observing decide whether you are a threat or an attraction,
whether you are of interest to them or not. In most cases, people make the vital
decision about a stranger in less time than what it takes to blink an eyelash.
If you mess-up that moment, you will have to work awfully hard for the next. When
you see a
beautiful woman wearing something really odd you'd say "she's beautiful but..."
and when you see a very handsome man wearing wrinkled trousers with dirty white
socks, you may find yourself saying he's your type but not excited to meet. Blame
this on first impression.
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